Monday, December 15, 2008

The Weekend

Andrew and I had a wonderful weekend. I may seem like a Christmas bah humbug just because I hate Santa and all the commercialized mumbo jumbo... but I actually love this time of year. Friday night started off our weekend with us having the opportunity to go to The Mormon Tabernacle Christmas Program with one of Andrew's long lost boyhood friends and his wife. It was lovely.I really mean it... just lovely. There were two guests that night one being (try following me on this one) The man who did the singing part of Jethro in the Prince of Egypt. Wonderful voice. I am normally not a fan of someone who is to jazzy or changes good ole Christmas songs to much. However, I will make and exception. This man was spectacular. Also he sang the song form Prince of Egypt with the choir and Temple Square Orchestra and I had a myriad of emotions. At first I started giggling because I couldn't help but thing of cute little Wilson dancing like a nut in our family lip sync. It made me so happy I began to cry. Andrew joined in on the giggling because he had seen the lip sync. The couple in front of us just starred at us for being so rude. Then I cried because I love Christmas I love Mormons and I love my family. It was just wonderful. The other guest introduced the song I heard the Bells. That is by far my most favorite Christmas song. I told the story of how Longfellow (I think that is who wrote it) came up with the lyrics and it was just beautiful. Again I cried. I don't know what it is about me being this stone cold emotionless rock... but good beautiful music just gets me. That is not the first time I have cried in front of others because music has touched me. I'm sure Andrew was glad to learn that I have emotions.Then we went with Andrew's old pal and wife and to eat dinner and got home late late late driving through a nice little blizzard that didn't stick in Utah County at all... Just in SLC. We woke up o dark early to make it to Salt Lake again for a mission buddy of Andrew's temple sealing. It was lovely. The sweetest part is that both Mr and Mrs cried through the whole ceremony. Just so sweet. I don't remember crying but I'm pretty sure I had a big stupid grin on my face. I had never been in the Salt Lake Temple but it was lovely. Also snowing again in Salt Lake but not sticking back in Provo. The couple opted to take pictures at the reception rather than the temple in the cold cold snow. Andrew is a little displeased with missing out on all the snow fun that those up North are having.That afternoon we had dinner with Uncle William and Aunt Charlene. Daniel and Rachel with boyfriend were there and we decorated gingerbread houses from these fun little kits. I think ours turned out smashing. Rachel and Jared (said boyfriend) decorated theirs pretty great. They started a lovely roof design and just pure cuteness then *gasp* their little reindeer's head broke off but that didn't stop them. The incorporated it into their house. The deer had a red gumdrop attached to either half of its body and then glued to the side of the house. Very funny. Then Rachel put a gingerbread man falling of the roof while trying to put up Christmas lights. It became very Christmas macabre very quickly.
Sunday, Andrew played piano while I sang in our Spanish caroling group. Surprisingly I did not faint. It was fun. Then I taught the relief society lesson which did almost make me faint... but I think it went went well. Here is a surprise for all... I am actually beginning to like Relief Society!!! I am also really excited to go visiting teaching this week. Wow... go figure. I guess when you serve you love.

Sunday evening we had the opportunity to go see Andrew's family (Dad, Mom, Stacey, Matthew) perform in their Stake Christmas Program. Dad sang a lovely solo with Matthew accompanying. It was lovely and we got to spend time with family which I love. So That is all. A Wonderful weekend with wonderful family.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Ode to my Hubby

If you would glance over to your right just next to that lovely picture there and read that little self explanation of mine just near the bottom there is a lovely addition from my husband. This made me smile. I told him the other night to take a look at my blog because I had spruced it up a bit and it looks nice. He asked how one even logged into my blog to edit and play, I told him then I promptly went back to what i was doing (napping on the couch). Today I got on my blog... as is routine for me in the mornings at work when I am killing time... and I noticed his little note. What a sweetheart. He really is a great husband and I love him more than anything. I have realized a few things this week about how much I love this great man...
1. I really am blessed to have such a wonderful husband who loves me and respects me. I was speaking with a friend the other day about a divorce she had gone through recently and she told me it really all came down to that he didn't ever want a family and he also worked all the time and kept her "happy" with giving her allowance for buying things to keep her busy. I thought how horrible that would be to have all the money you needed but no husband or anything that really mattered. It made me really grateful for Andrew and the hard work he does but also all the attention he pays to me and that he is excited to start our little family.2. He is so spontaneous and fun. He decided a week or two ago that we are going to learn Spanish... I didn't take him very seriously. I thought it was just some silly whim or fun idea. I did not expect him to follow through on it. Until he dragged me to a Spanish class that our ward is offering. Then I believed him. Now this Sunday we are doing a musical presentation in sacrament meeting where he will be playing the piano and I and a few others will be singing a Spanish Christmas carol. I have never sung in a musical presentation small group of people where I can be heard by others group nervous sweating fainting group of people singing in front of people..... I will be okay. I love my husband.
3. He calms me down when I get stressed and out of control. He can tell when I'm upset even when I'm not sure that I'm upset. He won't let me ignore him or my stress. He makes me talk. He helps me see that I'm not just being silly and that everything will be okay and I love him for that. The other day I was stressed about something at work and I just called him out of the blue to hear his voice... it automatically calmed me down. He said everything would be okay and I believed him. He is also willing to let it go when I have been silly... he doesn't hold it over my head or keep bothering me about my imperfections. If the house is messy he doesn't complain. Maybe he wants to... but he doesn't do it.4. He isn't awkward around other people... when I am. He is very much a people person, even though he pretends not to be, and I am beginning to learn that I am not. I don't know when this happened or if it has always been true but I'm not a people person. I am very good at acting like one... but it is all lies. I would rather curl up in a ball under a nice warm blanket and watch a movie and never see day light again. Maybe that isn't true but Andrew is very personable and kind to others. He is always willing to make new friends and meet new people and invite someone over to dinner. I would rather hang out with the friends I already know and never meet anyone else. Also not true... but you get the point. Andrew is awesome.
5. He is willing to do what i want to do. Even if that is playing skipbo or hunting for a Christmas tree that we aren't going to buy or exploring tunnels and a park that is shut down. He likes to do fun crazy weird things and I love that. We are fun and kiddie and we keep ourselves entertained.
6. He is a good righteous man. He loves going to the temple with me and I love that. He loves serving those in our ward. He does his home teaching. He knows more people in the ward than I do. He loves to have the missionaries over as often as possible. He reads scriptures and says prayers with me. He is good and I am so grateful for that. I have known my share of troubled lost men in this world who hurt those who love them with their poor choices and refusal to apply the atonement to their wounds and sins. Andrew is not that man. He served an honorable mission and he loves the gospel. That is such a comfort to me. I used to say that to him all the time when we were dating. I love that you are good... I still feel that way.
7. Lets be honest... look at him. He is just so handsome. I can't get enough of him. We were watching a movie last night and i just took a few minutes to just stare at him. I really can't get enough of this guy. This is long... anyway the point is ladies. Hold on to your wonderful husbands. They don't come cheap. It bothers me to hear other women complain about their husbands about the silly little things. Husband bashing sessions are terrible. Don't do it. That said I shouldn't bash other peoples husbands or anyone for that matter. I'm not perfect. Okay... getting off my soap box. I love my husband.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Because I've been slacking...

To all my anxious fans who haven't heard from me in a while. I love you.
Lets see what has happened since my last post... we went to St. George to see Dad and Stacey run a marathon and camped out with friends and I got scared by a huge dead spider. Thanksgiving was wonderful. We had three different turkey dinners!!! We got to spend a ton of time with family which was really great. Andrew has been up to school and work and still keeping his wonderful wife happy. Sometimes I can be really demanding. I have taken on different responsibilities at work with the same pay. I am now a part receptionist part CRM part Sales Secretary. It gets confusing... and I get tired. I have to be at work by *gasp* 7:30 every morning. I know that sounds like nothing to some of you but I am just getting into this whole adult early to bed early to rise thing and going from 9:00 to 7:30 is a killer. My job is a lot less stressful now though because I have more help. Also I went and had an appointment with an academic advisor on campus and I will be back to school by Spring semester!!! I hope to buckle down and finish as soon as possible. I have finally decided I want to Major in Political Science and also get a teaching degree so I can teach high school civics classes. Sorry I have no pictures to sprinkle through this post for your viewing pleasure... use your imagination. Happy Holidays to all!!!

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Sometimes I feel this way.

So I really like to visit this website www.explodingdog.com and check out the new pictures everyday. Sometimes they are lame and other times they can be a bit crude. However, other times they hit just the right spot. I loved this one. Today at work I went to this big corporate meeting in a high rise building downtown and I just ate my deliciously unhealthy cupcake and starred out the window. It was a "very" productive meeting.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Oktoberfest!

A while back Andrew and I and friends got to go to Oktoberfest up at a ski resort near us and it was fun. Well actually the fun started after we went to Oktoberfest. The fest itself was a letdown... not enough drunk people or Germaness. So we walked around and looked at the open air market which has a cool German name that escapes me right now... Andrew would know it. Something sounding like Christmas I think... Anyway, Andrew decided we need some real German food!So we found a cool little Dutch store and went shopping. Andrew put together some Canoodles and Schnitzel and Roat Kolle (sorry for butchering the spelling Andrew). Canoodle is a funny word wich means something compleatly different to me than potatoe balls. They are kinda like a ball of mashed potatoes. Now Schnitzel I always pictured to be a yummy sweet treat of some kind... nope it is pork and it is delicious! The Roat Kolle is pickled purple cabbage and Andrew loves it. He asked if when we get food storage if roat kolle could be our main staple or a part of it. It was great! It was mostly fun just to see Andrew get really excited about Germany and German food and sharing it with us. We had Nate and Ashley with us and Ashley even ate some of the meat and didn't die. Mama Stradley's birthday is coming up this next week so Andrew will be cooking German food again and that will be loads of fun!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

New Job Needs a New Post!

I am the new Customer Relations Marketing Manager at the fancy smansy dealership right next door to the one I used to work at. They sell Porsche Audi and Volkswagen! I couldn't be more excited about it. Reasons are as follows:
  1. Hours 9-5
  2. Pay $11 (up from $8.50)
  3. My own office which is the biggest on in both dealerships
  4. My office is painted yellow!
  5. Free unlimited Starbucks Hot Chocolate
  6. Fresh Fruit Basket including Nectarines
  7. Lots of Responsibility (less boredom)
  8. Long Job Title
  9. I may get to drive a Porsche some day
  10. All of our car manufacturers are German and so is Andrew
  11. I get to go to local high schools and give away cars to deserving students
  12. I get lots of free swag
  13. My boss really likes me!
  14. So does everyone else
  15. I work with someone named Bill who has a sweet sunglasses tan
  16. My boss wants to be able to get a hold of me whenever possible so he will pay the difference in our phone bill to have us buy more minutes and text messaging!
  17. I can make it home before Andrew and cook dinner!
  18. I don't have to dress up!
  19. They are going to teach me how to drive a stick shift once and for all!
  20. Andrew is excited because he gets to see me more often including Saturdays!
  21. I can go to church activities now including enrichment nights and other such shindigs
  22. Next Saturday Andrew and I can go to St George with the family to watch Dad and Stacey run in the marathon and hang out in a hotel and watch conference
  23. I don't have just one desk but two!
  24. I can still visit my friends next door that I miss dearly
  25. I can't think of another one but I needed 25 reasons
There is so much more that I can't think of right now but I just love this new job. It is great and my boss really is a nice guy. The cars here are really pretty. I'm just happy as peach plum pudding... if that kind of pudding even exists. Andrew is doing well in school he has some tests today and this coming week so he is studying hard. He works at the library and got to me the president of the library yesterday! This man sounds amazing he has like a billion degrees and masters from several different colleges. Andrew also loves his religion professor who seems to know everything about everything. His Anatomy class is tough and he has been learning muscles and bones like a mad man but he enjoys it. He gets to go and study the cadavers as well which he just thinks is neat. So that is the update on us Provo Stradleys. Life is great!

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Because I haven't in a while

I was talking to Amber Dearest about blogging this morning and how lately my life has gotten a lot less exciting to everyone else. I just haven't felt like blogging sorry guys. I know there are lots of you out there who want so badly to be posted on every second of my life right? Not so much? Its cool, I understand. To be honest though I just love logging onto Amber's blog or someone else's and having something fun and full of pictures to read. So I guess I am being selfish by not giving back. So here I am giving back...

I found out about myself yesterday that I am really good at standing up for myself when I feel attacked or the need to be stubborn and stalwart. Kind of like in the animal kingdom you protect yourself when you are being attacked but if your predator seems nice and pretty looking you ignore them til you are dead. It seems when I am asked politely or even cajoled into things I may not necessarily want to do I give in willingly. Sad I know.

For instance... I got a phone call from a very sweet Mary Kay lady who got my information from a friend. She asked so politely if I wanted a FREE facial and some pampering... uh duh for sure did you say FREE? So of course I said yes and she asked so nicely! Then the stipulations came... she had to come to my house, well not had to I just didn't want to go to hers. I had to invite friends... ha friends. What friends. I just got married... I'm still working on getting used to that let alone trying to make friends! Then there is that whole hanging out with single people that you weren't really close to in the first place. If you want to keep your single friends while married its got to be one of those magical relationships that you were attached at the hip and still are... which leads to marital issues I'm pretty sure. Also I have a crazy work schedule so the only time is at 10:00 in the morning and try getting friends to come to that! Oh no... why did I say yes. Now I have to talk to people... and get my "friends" to come. Ya sure I could get free stuff for getting friends to come so I get paid to have friends? Man I wish I had some friends to use.
Also... lets look at this face. Creepy. Kinda looks like an old man in a weird dress. Could be a cross dresser... look at that wig! Hair net? I dunno... just creepy. I really don't know what Mary Kay make up does to you over the years... but I don't wanna look like that when I'm old. I'm more going for something like this
Flawless. Classic. Gorgeous.

So now I need to find friends or think of a way to get out of being mutated into and old man/woman in a tent. I also need to grow a back bone to those pretty predators otherwise known as Mary Kay Consultants.